Long story short, about lately, as it will be from now on, I had La Gitana over for a couple of tarot readings yesterday and she let me know that I need to find a different way to my relationships with men. Tonight I found myself slow-dancing in a haze at 1 a.m. on a Sunday to "Begin the Beguine"... Let me lead, he said. Relax your shoulders. One of the many reasons I love you, he said. You would do this with me. Our busy lives, our oft disconnected worlds, head on shoulder, cheek to cheek, vastly underrated, a vast metaphor.